The role of parents in developing a child's healthy mentality

 The role of parents in developing a child's healthy mentality, especially sexual psychology, is many. The role of parents and family is real in the formation of any thought consciousness or rooted idea of ​​the child. But the sad fact is that there is a significant lack of awareness among parents in our country. I will especially focus on the fixation of sexuality in the psyche of the child. Children are getting wrong messages about sex due to ignorance of parents. I will discuss some such aspects. It is often seen that children are behaving in ways that are not appropriate for their age. Children play 'parents' in both urban and rural areas. In this game, children themselves play the role of parents. Surprisingly, it is often seen that this game is the trick that they unknowingly perform a variety of sexual acts through imitation. I do not think it necessary to elaborate. All of us are more or less aware (maybe many of us have done this in our childhood too). This unwanted behavior of the child is the result of parents' ignorance. Many children are often heard talking about their parents' sexual activities. They don't do it intentionally. Without understanding. Now the question is where do children get these ideas from? The answer is family. That is why responsible behavior of parents is very important. If the child sees something he is not supposed to see, it sends him the wrong message and will be reflected in his future behavior. That is why there is no substitute for parental caution in the intimate moments of intercourse or sexual intercourse. It should be remembered that the child learns to understand his body only at the age of 3 years. Determining one's own gender, distinguishing oneself from the opposite sex, these knowledges start to be mastered from the age of 3 years. Then, as he grew older, his genitals began to expand. So this period is important for young children. But parental negligence, ignorance can lead him astray. So be aware of this now. Otherwise danger is certain.